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How does one succeed in life?

11.06.2025 04:48

How does one succeed in life?

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Hangs out with loser friends.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Does not procrastinate.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Ask yourself:

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Living to your full potential is a goal.

That's it for today.

What I need from you?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Losing 20kg is a goal.